  Here's a list of things which are insulting and apparently not insulting. I've learned them in the last year or so, I really had no idea! It is insulting to point out that someone who is older than you, is older than you. It isn't insulting to disregard a 27 year old as being dumb and ignorant, simply because you are OLD. It is insulting to ask a supposed friend how their current relationship is going. It isn't insulting to tell someone that they'll never get over you, move on in life or find someone who will want them and love them, the way you used to but don't any more. It is insulting to comment with genuine concern that someone is loosing weight, when you worry that it may mean they're ill.
It's ok to comment on how fat someone is, and constantly refer to them as fatty and fatass. It's wrong to jokingly point out a (one amongst many) new grey hair. It's just fine to tell someone their skin looks like shit, not jokingly, and&nbsp;in a "not sure I want to be seen with you" way,&nbsp;even though you are well aware that they have their period due in a day's time. and most of all It's perfectly OK to lie about every aspect of your life to someone, just to make sure you can carry on screwing them, and still insist you care about them when discovered, and maintain that no wrong was done by you doing this.
Under no circumstances should you react, on discovering the above, in a manner that is angry or emotional, nor should you blame said liar, as it was done with your own interests at heart really, considering being used as a cheap fuck in a hotel room by someone who you have trusted implicitly is probably all that keeps you going, silly girly! 
