  the other day a friend told me about blogging. i thought i would give it a look. i found some of them interesting and i thought i would give it a try.
mostly, tho, i need a place to vent some of my frustrations about my wonderful (possibly, soon to be) husband, wim. wim isn't really his name, but it's dutch enough and i don't want to use his real name in case anyone we know should come across this and tell him about it. i would talk to my mother or friends about the frustrations i am having, but i don't want to get a lot of "i told you so" and if there's one thing my mother loves, it's that fucking phrase.
i told you not to move over there. i told you you'd hate it. thing is, i don't. i totally love it here - we live in amsterdam. i've been here about a year and i'm getting my bearings. but wim has some habits and ways that i find a little difficult to handle some times, and that's what this is about. plus i don't need to be reminded about something i complained about over and over. i can put it here and let it rest.
so if no one ever reads this, i don't really care. and if everyone reads it, i don't mind that either. i just need a place to unload and tell about those things that piss me off. and there are some things that he does that are so sicky sweet i think i'll just throw up - and i love them. so i hope to tell those things too. 
