  We blame somebody because we are incapable of accepting the fact that men are not infallible with his actions, promises, decisions, and work--either because we feel too great of ourselves or we stoop down at these earthlings we're forced to mingle with. Nobody's exempted from committing this unkind attitude but somebody can stand differently when confronting this air of pride. But just like war, there's the art of blaming. We can blame somebody by shouting straight to his face, "F**k man, what do you think you're doing?". Or we can be blame somebody in a more naive and superficial manner like, "I thought you said everything's ok?
" then a grimaced smiled after that. But there are others who are in control of themselves better, they approach you and say, "I think we have a problem with your performance, can i do something to help? " urlLink Whichever is your style, whichever you prefer is better, be sure to face the consequences, that is, make sure that you can endure a dose of your own medicine ;) ... or better, never ever commit any mistake in your life.
********* The worst thing that could happen when we blame somebody is when we don't know what the real story is--he might not be involved with the problem, but was just a good samaritan who tried to help. Too bad when he lend a hand, he gets the whole responsibility of the problem. So the moral lesson of the story is....always lend a hand to those who need help, then use this hand to slap the person who's blaming you ?? ********* Q&amp;A: Promises are meant to be? a) deformed b) broken c) fulfilled d) who cares? 
