  love. over-written, re-written and under-written. and this is my stab at it. love is meaningful and meaningless. it's illogical and logical. it's real and a false hope. love is only as meaningful as you appreciate the relationship and the person you are with. someone's love for you can be meaningless to you if you don't feel the same. because of it, you wake up every morning with a smile, but when it's unrequited or unfullfilled it causes more tears then joy.
a past relationship often looks silly when you look back on it years later. you can love someone for all the right reasons,they can be the perfect person for you - but there are reasons as to why you shouldn't allow it to bloom, but you do. you can land the "catch" and be bored by the simplicity. you can have that "security" but not the fire or the fire and passion with some "struggles". love is a real emotion. it's a yearning desire to share yourself with this amazing human being in front of you, but it has falsaties attached to it. many people don't understand how to keep love going, how to keep nurturing a relationship, how to play all of the parts for one another as to not fall into a rut. most people don't truly understand the commitment involved. the true, hard commitment to continue to appreciate, be interesting, sexy, be strong, to want for happiness of the other and to want to continue to share your time.
love it real, but real love is wanting to do that, to understanding the effort and work that's required to make yourself and your mate happy. you want to re-balance your life just to have that person by your side. and perfect love is when both partners understand that and relish in knowing they will always have each other. 
