  I don't understand women, and being one makes it even more confusing. Let's do a hypothetical situation (ok we all know it's really not but work with me here). There is this girl we'll call her D. D has got a lot going for her, she loves life, she is fairly pretty, has a good job, she's just come out of the closet, and has just met a very amazing woman. Enter (we'll call her K) K. K is a girl who lives on top of the world. Very ambitious, grabs the bulls balls, and never takes no for an answer. She is everything D wants in a woman. But ( the famous But) they are suppose to be just friends. Until one day D realizes K is the only person for her. D proceeds to tell K and everything seems to go quite well. But over the next few months nothing happens. Time goes by and K finds a girlfriend, who is not D. Ok now D does not understand. K knows how D feels and yet just strings her along and just plays with her emotions. This goes on for awhile, and they get a little closer and then pull away blah blah blah.
Things between them get rocky because of K's worse half (we'll call her S). So they stop talking and hanging out. Nothing really ever happens. Now a year and a half later, D and K have both grown up a bit and are both single. D's friends don't think she should be involved with K at all because before, K hurt D bad and used her and took her for granted.
K doesn't really know what she wants. But D wants to help her and take care of her, no matter what. The past is done, you can't change it, D has forgiven K for breaking her heart and I think K has done the same. D wants to try again. So what should I do? 
