  oh lordy! nbsp;  My day went so badly yesterday. so the cyst burst and it was bad,  bad pain. we went out grocery shopping,
 which I barely made it through and then I came home and slept. and slept. and slept some more. nbsp;  Well,  we had invited the parents over for Key Lime Pie as an additional "
thank you"  for watching B for the week. so,  they arrive. nbsp;  My mom asks how I was as I wasn't looking to keen.
I briefly explain what happened and we move on with conversation.  & nbsp;  Fast forward an hour. maybe two. nbsp;
 Dessert has been eaten. nbsp;  Hubby,  B,  and my dad go out to play baseball. nbsp;
 My mom decides this is the time to start planning my older sis' baby shower. nbsp;  & nbsp;  Background info:  she had already sent out invites WITHOUT consulting with either La or I.
SHE created the guest list,  again,  without input. and invites HER friends whom my sister has met once or twice. READ:  this is really a party for HER,
 a social event for her to pull off. nbsp;  Now,  mind you,  I have lived with her ways for many years and KNEW this is what is was going to become.  &
nbsp;  Back to last night. so,  she had previously asked what I thought of having this restaurant cater. nbsp;  Stuipidly,
 I said I didn't think it was a good idea because it would cost too much. nbsp;  So,  as " we"  are planning this,
 the first thing she writes is Restaurant X for sandwiches. nbsp;  ummm. okay. nbsp;  Then she asks,
 what would go with the sandwiches. to which I say,  fruit and vegetables. nbsp;  What should we drink?  Tea and lemonade.
nbsp;  Should we have a cake?  yes. and on with the questions. which I answered. nbsp;
 All of a sudden,  she puts the pen down and says to La and I,  I don't appreciate your lack of enthusiasm. nbsp;  WHAT? nbsp;
 ( yes,  that is what I actually responded with) I just don't think you are very excited about this and willing to help. nbsp;  To which I said,
 I guess I'm confused,  you were asking questions,  I was answering. besides,  this is your party and I am assuming you are going to tell me what you want me to do. nbsp;
 ( Not exact words but meaning) well,  it went downhill from there. nbsp;  So,
 basically,  there was my mom and I yelling at each other. me trying to remind her the ordeal I had just gone through. I have been trying all night and all morning to understand where she is coming from and I just can't. she stomped out of the house and told my dad to take her home.  &
nbsp;  once again,  I'm the black sheep of the family. it is usually more fun than last night.
