  okay, kids...have you checked out my links yet??? If not, please, please, please check out Ironbound . Hugo has been rocking my world as of late...if you have read my blog since its origination, you would know why. In short, he has just summed up my lamentations for the past few years in one simplistic yet beautiful sentence... "i can't love you because i don't know you anymore..." it isn't right being reduced to tears at work...bravo, Hugo! 
