  so,  we went to the inlaws this weekend. it was interesting. nbsp;  Supposedly,  my bil and sil were NOT talking to my mil.
nbsp;  Well,  hubby and I volunteered to babysit so they could have some " alone"  time before sil goes back to work. nbsp;
 So,  we get up there,  call them and they don't want to go out. they would rather spend the time with us. nbsp;  Well,
 they did not get a " formal"  invite to dinner so hubby acted as middle man to arrange it all. nbsp;  They come over,  we all have dinner,
 everything seems hunky- dorey.  I notice that evening,  sil seems inattentive when it comes to L. nbsp;  I didn't want to pass judgement so I thought maybe it was just the crap with my mil.
nbsp;  who knows?  Saturday we get up and get ready to go out on the boat. nbsp;  Sil says she will catch up with us later. nbsp;
 We go out. nbsp;  Why do we always have to bring both boats? nbsp;  It makes for a very awkward time. nbsp;
 Do we ride with dad or brother? nbsp;  So,  hubby and I ride with my bil and send B with mil and fil. nbsp;  Mind you,
 I am still not feeling quite right. hubby tells everyone I have been having issues with my stomach. nbsp;  Umm. great! nbsp;
 So now,  everyone looks at me like I'm about to crap my pants. how halarious.  We stay out for quite some time. sil calls,  still not on her way.
nbsp;  By the time she got there,  everyone else is ready to go but we stay out for a while longer. nbsp;  I start feeling awful so sil,  mil,
 L,  and I pack up while the guys get the boats in. nbsp;  We head out to the pizza place to order pizza. nbsp;  L starts screaming at the top of her lungs.
not a whimper,  full- fledge screaming. nbsp;  Sil just ignores it. nbsp;
 She goes in to order the pizza and L is SHRIEKING. I mean,  the baby is 9weeks old but I think she is about to pass out from how hard she is crying. nbsp;  Sil gets back in the car and continues to ignore. nbsp;
 So,  we get dropped off at inlaws and we will wait for hubby and fil to pick us back up to go over to bil and sil. I rest ( fall asleep) nbsp;  We go over there.
nbsp;  Eat pizza. nbsp;  Get going. nbsp;  The dog is annoying,
 barking at everyone which makes L cry. sil still ignoring her. nbsp;  On the way home,  mil goes off about how she thinks L's problem is the breast milk because sil has not stopped to think about the way her eating habits affect L. nbsp;
 True but I don't know if this is it. nbsp;  Regardless,  it showed both hubby and I a little insight into where mil is coming from.  Anyway. I remember a friend I have,
 h,  that also knows my sil,  saying,  I don't know if she will be able to handle a baby. it won't be all about her anymore. nbsp;
 I had forgotten that comment until this weekend as I am watching her. I'm still trying not to pass judgement but she was not like any new mother I have ever seen. and I've seen a lot! nbsp;  Usually,  when your newborn cries your top priority is to figure out what is wrong and try to get the baby to stop crying.
she could not have cared less. nbsp;  And,  as I was watching her this weekend,  I thought,  h was right.
she can't handle her show being cancelled. nbsp;  Sad.  But,  all in all,  we had a great time which surprised us both.
nbsp;  I had nightmares about babies both nights we were there. which was sad. nbsp;  It was a bittersweet feeling spending so much time with L. nbsp;
 I loved holding her and watching her but it was tough because it brought my desire to have a baby right to the surface.  oh yeah. bil asked if they could come the WHOLE week with us to FL next year. umm,  we offered two nights! nbsp;
 Hubby said not a chance in hell. haha.
