  happy belated halloween! i was still kinda sick but we still went to my cousin's house in carson. we usually go there every year. it's kinda funny cuz we're probably the only BIG group that goes trick or treating with just 3 little kids. it's just fun going with the kids while all of my cousins just go walking together and talk. hehe. well, this year, i went for about half a block but then i was getting too cold and i didn't want to get sick even more. i just decided to go back to the house. oh well. anyway, i read on another blog about how good wingstop in carson was.
i've been wanting to give it a try but never had a chance until halloween. i just wanted to bring some food to my cousin's house so we ordered a few pieces for everyone! it was really good. thanx fellow blogger. haha. so, saturday i was having a surprise bachelorette party at my place for mary. andy and the other guys were also having a bachelor party in a hotel. mary was so freakin' surprised! she came over cuz we were "supposedly" going clubbing that night. she was also surprised since her sister (who lives in chicago) was there! the surprise didn't get ruined....it's just that the pizza delivery guy and mary came at the same time!!!!
okay...am i ghetto? each girl that was a bridesmaid had to bring a dish. well, the cousin brought lumpia but then by the time they cooked it at my house, it was too defrosted. when they put it in the oil, it just broke apart. they decided to just go ahead and order pizza. so, she called and ordered the pizza. finally, the pizza arrived...and the cousin didn't even offer the money. i'm probably just ghetto just cuz i don't have that much money. well, i ended up asking them if they were gonna pay for it.
hehe......so, they ended up paying for it. geez...what a ghetto trina. i guess i would've paid for it if i HAD to. no big deal!!! anyway, mary was so surprised. she had no clue! thank god for ross for helping me out in getting her to my place. at the end, it all worked out nicely. we were all trying to get her drunk really fast but she drinks really slow.
hehe.
i guess shots would've been better. we wanted her to be relaxed by the time the stripper got there!
hehe.
eventually the stripper got there. he was alright. he did his show...but he just talked too much and was being sarcastic. my dollar bills left my pocket so fast---too fast that i actually ran out. don't worry...it's not cuz i spent a lot. before the party, andy and i decided to have $50 each...in single dollar bills. he went to the bank and got some change. i wasn't planning on using the 50 singles---we wanted to have that much just in case some of the girls didn't have any change. so yeah, i was the change lady. i totally ran out of singles after that first stripper!!! and i thougt it was a rip off. nope...i didn't like him too much. mary was a little nervous but she still had fun!!! well, we had an hour time lapse when the SECOND stripper would come. mary didn't even know that a second stripper was coming.
hehe.
i was kinda nervous cuz i didn't even have anymore single bills. i ended up going to ralps (yay ralphs) for change. by the time i got back, the second stripper just arrived. perfect timing!
hehe.
the second stripper was so much better!!! he got the crowd more into it. when he got there, i just gave mary a shot to loosen her up! IT WORKED! she had so much fun!
i had so much fun!!! my gosh...what a crowd pleaser. he ended up coming as a cop! so, he kinda did a little skit...trying to arrest and search!
hehe.
he wanted us to do put a dollar bill over whoever so that they can get a dance. it was so funny. a lot of these girls were shy. they were laughing so hard...sometimes even saying...ewwww gross!
haha.
anyway, someone put a dollar over me so it was my turn. he was actually doing motions as if we were having sex. i was kinda embarrassed w/ the first stripper but since i liked this stripper a lot more, i decided to kinda act the part. i was moaning/laughing...saying yeah baby!
hehe.
it was fun. the stripper was ending his show and said that he also does private shows...one on one. and to give him a call and everything. so he was about to leave........but one of the girls asked if he can give mary a private show NOW!
it cost 20 bucks! haha...so they went into the bedroom and did their thing! i'm pretty sure the stripper was happy! more money! he finally was ready to leave....he was thirsty too so we offered him a drink. he eventually left! boy oh boy was mary surprised. she totally didn't see that second stripper coming. but everyone was happy just cuz he was so much better than the first one.
haha.
after a few people left, some of the other girls actually wanted to go to the bachelor party. i didn't really wanna take any part of that cuz i didn't wanna be rude. i didn't wanna ruin the guys' party. but everyone got drunk too fast. they had their strippers earlier than we had ours so their party was kinda over...esp. since everyone was messed up. that's when i decided to go. the girls were actually not planning on ruining their party but we were just gonna hang out some more and get our own room. well, we saw the guys and everyone was knocked out. after some rest, the girls were pretty much sober. andy was actually supposed to spend the night in the hotel but too many guys threw up and it smelled so bad.
not only did they throw up but they threw up on the floor. and one of the guys kept spittling on the floor. so, it worked out good ......no one stayed at the hotel except the really drunk ones.
haha.
oh yeah....for the bachelorette party we had a few games. kinda ghetto but i had A LOT of prizes to give away. it was so fun. a lot of people didn't know what certain things were and we were just looking at em trying to figure out what it does and where it goes. they were thinking that i was kinky when in fact, i had no idea what a lot of things were!!!! ya, my cousin hooked me up with a lot of stuff. he gave me 3 boxes filled with stuff that i gave away at the party! i was actually considering selling em on ebay but i just never did.
some of those prizes were worth $100! i also made these goodie bags filled with condoms, keychain, lubricants, lotions, massage oils...blablabla. each girl probably took home at 3 or 4 prizes and they were trading things that they got in the goodie bags.
it was so funny.
so, back to the guys' party! andy and i were on our way home and he was telling me what happened at their party. some people get jeolous but i guess i'm different. we're able to be open about it. but OH MY GOSH!
i can't say anything specific in here.....all i can say is....really expensive. =) man, this blog is so long and i still have to talk about sunday!
hehe.
sunday, we ended up waking up around 10am. for the party, we put coach in one of those dog hotels. haha...i think she was at a vet that lets pets stay overnight. so, when we woke up, andy went to go pick her up. i missed her so much!
hehe.
i'm so glad she's back!!!! anyway, there was some talk about having a barbecue at my house and then we all go to church together. well, no one was able to get a hold of mary. we were thinking that she was just sleeping or she was mad @ ross. so, we ended up not having anything! andy and i just ate the left overs for lunch. after that, we were watching how to lose a guy in 10 days...but fell asleep in the middle.
we were just tired!! by the time i woke up, i had to get ready for the 5pm mass. andy and i are usually about 90% late. we don't mean to but it just ends up that way. i don't like to be late cuz i wanna be able to sit!
hehe.
but yeah, we were late again and we didn't get a seat. but then we saw ronald and told us to come his way. everyone was actually there! we didn't even plan to go but i guess since there was some talk about it, we all decided to go even if it wasn't definite. did that not make sense? who cares. mary made it sound like the priest that was marrying them wanted us to go to mass together so that he can talk to all of us. but it wasn't even like that. he just wanted us to go to church together...just because---spiritual bonding! when we found that out, we all did a group hug. isn't that just priceless? haha...it was cute!
after mass, ross and mary took us out to dinner at pho 99. i've never been there. andy got the pho (which is something i've never had) and i got a beef rice plate. mine was pretty good. the pho was good too but i don't like the noodles. so, we finally got home and rested again. actually, i fell asleep at 9pm but i wanted to wake up cuz i have to prepare for something that's due on tuesday. and now i'm just blogging when i'm supposed to be working on my stuff. ok...i'll stop now. 
