  I first met Utah White, and I learned that, yes, I could settle down and have A Boyfriend. (He was a really good one, too. ) When I originally met Idaho White, I thought that I would probably never find someone as well-matched for me as Utah White was. But I learned that moving on can be moving better. (No offense Utah White - I know you sometimes read this. ) But then I had to prioritize. After Idaho White I learned that Moving On does not have to mean Letting Go.
(I posted a nice blog on this - I wish I knew how to link you to it. ) And I think I have also learned that I can Move Up , and don't have to Give Up . There just may be some man who has the qualities I both Require and Desire . I spoke with a completely random (in a good way) Red in California, and though I would expect nothing to ever come of a possibility for a relationship-type-thing, (CA, NJ, PA, Oh Hey) I have again a reassurance that "My Type" does exist - not just on paper. I often wonder if my expectations are completely unrealistic. But I don't think they are. I think they are reasonable. And so, again determined, I will not settle .
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but I would prefer to be a wife and mother in this lifetime. :) 
