  There are all these blogs about men not being able to get any sex from their SOs, and they complain bitterly about it. Completely understandable. What I don't get is why women withhold sex. I, personally, love to fuck.
If I were a guy, I'd be hard all day. If I were to write down the thoughts that go through my head on a daily basis, I'd have priests sprinkling holy water on me and demanding that the lustful demons that inhabit my body be cast out. And even as a 20-something female who loves to fuck, I have difficulty both finding and getting partners. How is it that the libidinously gifted don't often meet each other? If I had a boyfriend, we'd be having all sorts of crazy monkey sex, the sort of sex where you wake up the next morning and realize there was indeed a wet spot, and, oh, by the way, your panties are hanging from the ceiling fan, all the time. I'd be so enthusiastic that he'd beg me to let him rest for a few days. And on the rare day that I'm not up for a full-on romp between the sheets (on the ground, up against the fridge, in the shower, sitting at my desk, whatever), nothing gets me (or him) off quite like a Damn Good Blowjob. I love (love! ) giving those. My technique makes men weak in the knees, and I'm damn proud of it. Back to my original point: why do womena withhold sex, and why do men allow them to? If I were married, and my husband refused to give it up, you'd best be damn sure than I'd have a wandering eye.
I wouldn't be able to stay with him very long after he started withholding, either. I'd divorce his ass and go get me some of the good stuff from whomever I damn well please so quickly, it'd make his head spin. Who wants to be with someone who is so unwilling to compromise on so vital an aspect of a functional relationship? I couldn't do it. And if I felt stuck in the marriage for whatever reason, valid or otheriwse, I'd cheat.
Plain and simple. I wouldn't cheat to get revenge, I'd cheat because I like to fuck and I can't at home. Jeebus. All these posts about sex... I seriously need to get laid more often. 
