  ...she is starting to realize slowly ( I hope she does! ) that she just married him so he could get his papers.
She just does not know what to do ... I do not know what to tell her? Can you help me... Man, these are some tough questions as of late. But I'm here for the tought ones, I like the challenge. I feel like I should post a disclaimer in case I accidentally screw up someone's life. Well I guess that if she doesn't really love the guy anymore then she should get out if it. The guy has the papers now I assume.
I'm not sure if there's a time limit on that, maybe you have to stay married for 6 months or something like that. If that's the case, then I'd say stay with him until it's legal for him to be here on his own and then give him some new papers, divorce papers. If he's really only with her to get his papers, then the divorce shouldn't be bad at all. He's probably already planning it anyway.
She should just tell him, "Hey listen, I have this feeling that you are only with me so you could get your papers, if that's the case, then tell me. Honestly. " If he's not honest with her, and frankly women are really good lie-detectors when it comes to men, then he's not much of a husband at this point anyway. 
