  I see that urlLink Blogs4God gave my post about honoring Tim a mention and a few people have actually stopped by to read it, so guess I should post an update on the situation. The news is good! Your prayers are working! Yesterday afternoon while we were talking, the name of a man from our old church came up. I don't even remember the rest of the conversation but at one point I asked Tim if he really thought he was ready to sit down to dinner with the man. He said yes, and cynic that I am, I asked, "Really? " Tim said that, yes, he was. That he wasn't even angry with the couple he had felt used him to achieve their goals in the church any more. He said that one day this past week everything just came together for him and he is over it. I certainly saw evidence of it in his willingness to attend Sunday school and also in the way he greeted people.
He was a lot more open to contact. Now that he is ready to let go of his anger and hurt, I pray that he will begin to walk more closely with God and allow the fellowship of other believers help him retain his integrity in all things. All of that will make my job of honoring him much easier. 
