  married...but lonely...email I got OK if you're married and having problems...I understand you need someone to talk to, as I know several people in real life as well as a couple online that are having marital problems...however, the following email arrived in my inbox today and while I normally just delete the spam mails I get, this one struck me as funny and sad all at the same time... marriedbutalwayslonely has arrived! How have you been? You would not believe what I found but it is true. There is a site for people to talk, chat, see each others pictures, and even meet each other as close as next door that I found.But that's not the best part, here is why it's so unbelievable, not all the people are single, in fact, a lot of them are even married, looking to satisfy their hungriest desires. marriedbutalwayslonely has arrived!
You would not believe what is going on and what people are saying about this site, check this out! I'm sure I'm not the only that's gotten this email...as it's a spam email and probably reaches thousands of people everyday.
I'm just wondering what kind of people would actually do something like this. I mean...I've never been able to understand why anyone would want to be in more than one relationship at a time...why not, if you're unhappy enough to start "wandering" not just get out of the unhappy one, whether you're married or not...and move on to someone that makes you happy? Maybe because I've never really experienced anything like that for myself...where I've been in an unhappy relationship and thought about cheating...or maybe it's because I just can't picture anyone ever actually going through the cheating process...it doesn't seem worth it to me in the end, because it always ends badly and always more than one person, more than likely yourself included, gets hurt.
*sigh* I feel sorry for the people that are like this...that look at life and decide that infidelity and lying is a safe healthy route. Kudos, however, go out to those that have learned their lessons and have picked a better road to go down...as I know some guys that have made a full turn around and realized they were total idiots to do something that crazy. Am I making any sense? Does anyone agree? Disagree? I have extremely strong feelings about infidelity...and lying especially.
I'm a strong believer in this: "If you tell me the truth right now, I can't guarantee that I wont' be upset...but atleast I won't be as upset with you as I would be if you lied to me about it and I found out the truth later. " Does that sound right? I think so. I mean, we can't guarantee that we won't be mad, or hurt...but isn't it always better to be honest? I'm sure that email got wasn't implying that we should "cheat" on our spouses and loved ones...but it sure wasn't sending us the "don't cheat" message either...was it?
As with all spam I get, I did delete it, but I thought I would post it here to help make some sort of point about how I feel about this subject. Hannah is throwing a royal fit though so I'm gonna go help calm her down!!
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