  my friend's dad died. thats hard. she's a strong one, though, so i think she will be alright. sometimes, though, when you are the strong one you dont give yourself room not to be strong and your weaker for it.
people always tell you "its okay to cry". i hate it when people say that. but is, i guess, okay to to cry. when things like that happen, i never know how to act. i always say the wrong things. i always act a little insincere for fear of being perceived as fake. i hope people understand that about me. they probably don't. 
